The contrast is in everybody’s face. Politics around the world are taking weird turns. Weather patterns are changing. The planet is shaking like we’ve never seen before. And many of our relationships are breaking down or coming to an end.
What the hell is happening here?
Are things all around us falling apart, or are they falling into place?
The Spanish poet Ramón de Campoamor once wrote, “In this deceiving world there are no truths nor lies, for, in the end, it all depends on the eyes looking at the world.”
And that is the point I’d like you to consider today. That whatever it is that’s happening in your world, in your finances, in your career, and in the most intimate of your relationships, you have two ways through which to see it.
You can look at it through fear, or you can look at it through love.
When you look through fear, the world is a scary and dangerous place. You feel anxious and insecure, act defensively. You feel jealous and constantly worry about the future. And any action you take from a place of fear, can only generate more fear.
But when you see through love, the world looks nurturing and supportive. You feel safe, calm and trusting. This loving state does not proceed from the mind, but rather, it radiates from the heart.
Through love you see the essence of a situation and not the details. You see the whole and not the parts. Love replaces your limited perception with vision and a deeper understanding of what is really going on.
The collective heart of humanity is expanding into love. That is EXACTLY what’s happening. Of that, I have no doubt.
Yes, there’s an increase in solar activity as our solar system moves through a highly charged plasma field.
Yes, there’s a measurable reduction of the earth’s magnetosphere and that’s having a profound effect on our physical, mental and emotional bodies.
Yes, Schuman’s Resonance is well beyond a steady 7.8 Hz pulse and is vibrating us out from the 3rd dimension to 5th.
If like Pierre de Chardin once said, “love is the blood of spiritual evolution,” that means we are all spiritually evolving away from fear and into love. We’re moving away from situations, systems, and relationships that were initiated, held together and sustained by the vibration of fear…
The fear of not being good enough, having enough, doing enough. The fear that it’s too late and we’ve gotten too old, too fat, and are too far gone.
This fear is what is now staring us right in the face.
It may look like a political party, a President-Elect or a candidate who lost. It may look like your current business challenge or the balance in your bank account. It may look like a job you hate, but can’t let go of. It may look like the person you’re in a relationship with but can’t get along.
Some of that fear is yours; some is not. Some you learned along the way or picked up from people who loved you and wanted only the best for you.
Regardless of how this fear is now rearing its ugly head, who or what is triggering it, I believe it’s there for you to finally see it. It’s there for you to name it so that you can tame it. It’s there for you to feel it so that you can heal it.
Expanding into your loving heart is the only way I know to remain sane while your world, the world you’ve grown so used to and have told stories about, begins to fall away.
So, stay present in your body, mind, and heart. Breathe deeply, stay calm. Invite this new love into your heart, as you courageously decide who leaves your life and who stays.
Think of all those relationships that have stopped flowing, feel imbalanced, or where you don’t feel loved, honored and respected anymore.
Think of all those habits, addictions, and behaviors that no longer satisfy you or meet your needs.
Think of all those activities or places you hang out (both offline and online) that no longer support your development and growth.
As things fall away, and you welcome the inevitable pain of loss, ask yourself..
- What would I love to create instead?
- What is my heart most longing for?
- What is God asking from me right now?
Then, as you listen closely and the answers begin to flow…
If you feel moved to go in a different direction or do something different, by all means, do.
If you feel inspired to connect with a specific type of person, organization or group, do that.
If you feel called to express your creativity in new ways, take the first step.
Place a hand over your heart and lovingly affirm to yourself:
I’m now the transformation I wish to see in my world.
The entire Universe is evolving into a higher vibration or frequency of love, and we’re ALL coming along for the ride whether we like it or not. That includes you and me, my friend. And that involves your heart and mine; for as Greg Braden wisely says, “the heart is where the action is.”
So don’t believe for a moment that you’re alone, or that you have to do it all on your own. You’re not. We’re all on this together. We’re all feeling it. This is one of the reasons I decided to serve humanity at this particular point in time by becoming a Heart Intelligence Coach.
Remain in your heart, in the company of love, and refuse the temptation to look outside for the answers; remembering what Carl Jung once said,
Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.”
To wake up means to die to the life you once dreamed, for the one that’s waiting for you.
As caterpillars die, so that butterflies can fly.
Keep walking; you’re doing just fine.
From my heart to yours.
Heart Intelligence Coach
Photo by Ben White