The following is something I wrote to a close friend who wanted to know if the person he is with is his Soulmate. I thought I share it with you…
We are all connected at the soul level. Each ‘soul’ mate brings a different lesson, a difference experience and a different aspect of ourselves back to us. At the level of the soul we will always be together. At the human level, the experience will always have a beginning, middle and end.
So be with each mate you soul calls you to be with as if was the last time. Love deeply without regrets, say “I love you” every time love overwhelms you and your heart wants to jump out of your chest. Make love passionately as if it was the first time. Most importantly, let the love others have for you be a reflection of the love you have for yourself. For you can only feel as loved by others, in the same proportion as you love yourself.
You came to this planet to have experiences. Through experience you remember who you really are in essence, beyond your physical form. Through experience you also get clear about what you really want, and what you no longer want. Sometimes the experiences that challenge you the most are the ones your heart and soul crave the most, for they will make you grow and expand beyond your wildest dreams or expectations. It’s all about exploration, so be an explorer and dive into the deep waters of love.
You will have many relationships, many people you will connect with at a soul level. Some of these people you will call soulmates. You might even meet a special someone with whom that connection is so deep and strong that it will challenge you so much so that the best – and the worst- in you can be brought forth. The best so that it can be enhanced, and the worst so that it can be healed. Over time, you may call this person “my soulmate” putting him or her above the rest and choosing to share the greater aspects of your life with them. And when its all done and over, you will realize that it was You who created it all so that you could grow. So, let love in, let yourself be loved. Running away from love will only delay what your heart and soul craves most.
There’s great love here for you. The Path to Soulmate Love is the path of becoming the lover you seek.
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